Undoubtedly, the experiences of our childhood we unconsciously guide how we and our behavior in adulthood, and often this can affect our relationships of couples. Today we will see what are the most common situations that happen in childhood affect our relationships?
Abandonment:
If you are looking to hold on to your partner to somehow support the abandonment in your childhood, chances are it away from you. Remember that deep down men like independence masked and discarded the girls very dependent. In this case, it is advisable to perform therapy to overcome the loss and prevent this from damaging your relationships.
Rebellion:
While it may be a gesture of autonomy, if you exceed the limits often will be unable to respond you or tolerate the views and actions of the other, and we must remember that when you are as a couple must be many agreements to make the relationship work.
Low esteem:
If you have learned from childhood that does not deserve to be loved and respected by others, you will surely a bind with men not treated like it should be. So before starting a relationship, you start to love yourself in order to receive affection and love someone else.
Submission:
This ?defect? can generate situations of abuse, therefore who does not put before his needs to those of the others never will be able to say that ?not? when is necessary; not talking about selfishness, but to have you as priority without fear to be rejected.
Perfectionism:
It is not wrong to want to do things the best way possible, but if you sin being a perfectionist, you may feel a constant pressure to achieve your goals, and this includes relationships that are often incurred because you push yourself and push yourself beyond the other normal.
Distrust:
If you are the type that never let down their guard to avoid get hurt, you should try to moderate that behavior, and then you too will defend those that show you love and they will take it as rejection.
Although when you suffer from abuse in childhood, there is a footprint very difficult to erase, if you realize that your behavior affects your relationships do not be afraid to ask for help because you might be missing the opportunity to share life with someone just because of fear the recurrence of such experiences.
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